Faith is what it's all about.
It's not about the outcome.
It's not about whether God "actually" had my family's best interests in mind (He did, btw).
It's about whether I had faith.
Did He take care of me? Did He take care of my family? Did He provide for us?
Of course He did. He promised He would. That was, therefore, a given.
What matters is....
Did I have faith that He would?